Granted, I have had moments in which I wondered what I
should do but I am blessed to say that I never been “bored.” Much of this has to do with the rich
childhood my parents gave me. They
always thought it was important to cultivate more than mere academics in their
kids. My mom used to say that “bored
people are boring people.” I think there
is truth to that. I think bored people
are boring because they are unaware (or worse, apathetic towards) the myriad of
interesting and useful pursuits….reading, hiking, sewing, woodworking, bug
collecting, gardening, visiting shut-ins, target-practice, photography, pets…the
list can be quite endless.
It seems to me that in many ways boredom is just culturally accepted apathy. A wonder-less existence. A world in which a mind is not curious about the
unknown nor adventurous enough to dip their toes into it. I am certain the causes of such ignorance
and/or indifference are multi-faceted, with many hypothesis purposed regarding
them and about which numerous books have been written. All of
this however, goes beyond the scope of this little blog post.
I am thankful that my parents encouraged each of us kids to
pursue interesting and new industries (aka hobbies). They didn’t do it to keep us “out of
the way.” On the contrary, some of our hobbyist
pursuits may have meant that we were more
messy and in the way than had we languished away quietly in boredom. My
parents also did not encourage industry as a way to just keep us “busy.” In my mind there is a difference between busyness and industriousness (notice how
carefully I picked out the title of this blog post… I could have said “too busy
to be bored” but I intentionally didn’t). Busyness to me, implies some degree of fluster; an exertion that may include but
perhaps more often does not include
purpose, value or edification to anyone. Industriousness
on the other hand, signifies activity with purpose, value and edification.
Fewer things
are sadder to me than a “bored” adult. Because of the heritage of industry planted in
me as a child, I am happy to say that as an adult I have reaped some of the delightful harvest of
finding many things interesting. While I
may be an “educated” collage graduate in my twenties with extra time on my
hands, I am never bored. On the contrary, my time off has invigorated and enlivened my interests so that I am trying things I never really considered
before…like woodworking for example. (Stay
tuned for future posts about these endeavors).
…are a diminishing practice
…cause people to think critically
…may be messy
…take time
…are enriching
…transforms you from the Sad Soul with whom a person can
only talk to for a 1 minute at a party into the Flourishing Soul with whom people can
willingly talk to for 30 minutes or more- because you interesting
…are moments never wasted!
2 comments:
Beautiful thoughts beautifully shared. Thank you C.!
Love, T
Thanks T! :)
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